If so, call: 1-800-273-TALK
Please make the call.
Thoughts of suicide are often associated with a treatable mental disorder. These thoughts are common (you’re far, far from being alone) and do not have to be acted on. If you call the crisis hotline number above, you’ll speak with a trained counselor who can help connect you to local resources and professionals who want to help. It’s free, 24/7, and confidential. Please call. There’s only one of you in this world and we want you to stick around.
Talking about suicide can be hard. I’m wondering what all of you are feeling right now, as you read this, and it makes my chest tight. So many of us are suffering.
Let me ask you all something: How prepared are you to offer help to someone in emotional distress?
I think it’s safe to assume that many of us feel less than competent in this area. How often does that stop us from reaching out when someone needs us?
On the flip side, I’m totally incompetent when it comes to helping people with physical medical problems, but if I saw someone on the street having a heart attack or a friend accidentally cut themselves, I would still offer assistance even though I really wasn’t sure what to do.
I bet a lot of you are the same. Even if we couldn’t remember how to do CPR or how to dress a wound, most of us would still reach out to someone having a physical medical emergency. We might offer a reassuring word, bust out the first aid kit, or call 911.
But what about when our friends, family, coworkers, and even strangers are suffering from a mental health emergency or are in emotional distress? A lot of us just keep our heads down. Not because we’re bad people, but because we don’t understand mental health issues. We don’t know what to do. We might worry that we’ll make things worse than they already are.
Luckily, there’s something we can do about this. This winter I earned my certificate in Mental Health First Aid through NAMI Maine. The full day training, developed by the National Council for Behavioral Health is offered internationally and helps everyday people learn how to effectively respond to individuals who are in psychological distress.
This is a training we should all take, no matter what we do for a living.
- One in five Americans experience a mental disorder in any one year.
- More than half of all adults in America will experience a mental disorder in their lifetime.
It’s highly likely that we will encounter someone (ourselves included) in need of mental health help at some point. So why not ditch the shame, clear up the confusion, and shed the stigma that surrounds mental health? Let’s get informed. We can learn the risk factors and warning signs for mental health and addiction concerns, strategies for how to help someone in both crisis and non-crisis situations, and where to turn for help.
Working in a helping profession requires intense emotional labor. All of us are impacted, in varying degrees, by the stress, trauma, and suffering we bear witness to every day. Sometimes it’s really serious:
1 in 6 veterinary professionals have considered suicide.
If you suspect someone may be at risk for suicide, it’s important to ask directly about suicidal thoughts.
DON’T avoid using the word “suicide.” You’re not planting the idea in their mind if you do.
DO ask the question without dread and without expressing a negative judgement.
DO be direct:
Are you having thoughts of suicide?
Are you thinking about killing yourself?
Letting people know that you care and want to help can make a major difference. Be sure to have information and resources available if they need assistance.
In the First Aid course, we learned a handy acronym to help guide us through the process of reaching out to anyone in distress (which includes panic attacks, addiction, depression, and self harm):
In order to move towards the last 3 steps, we need to get educated. Here are some ways to learn more right now:
Learn the signs, what you can do to help, and more myths about suicide.
More on suicide prevention here.
Always have this number nearby: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
You can also watch the free VetGirl webinar: Suicide in Veterinary Medicine
I highly recommend this Mental Health First Aid training for all of us, but especially for people in management and leadership roles. Your staff and the public you work with (who are also in distress some of the time) need you to know this kind of basic first aid for a variety of common mental health problems.
If you would like to get trained in Mental Heath First Aid, please visit this page.